It's always something...

I stayed up all night last night finishing my scrapbook, so as far as sleep goes, I'm running on empty. So why did Rob pick today to try to confront me about whatever the hell is wrong with him? And yes, I say wrong with him because I'm convinced he has real problems. He's one of those emotionally needy people that always needs reassurance that you still like him...the problem is that I don't still like him. He makes me uncomfortable and his presence bothers me.

Like tonight at dinner, we were talking about people having kids at a young age and out of nowhere he asked me if I was on birth control. I told him is was none of his business and he asked me why not...or something along the lines of why I didn't think it was ok for him to ask me that. Before I could even say anything, Chanda said, "You're not fucking her, don't worry if she's on birth control." Now, that's a little more blunt than I would have been, but it's true. That is none of his business and frankly I find the fact that he would even ask, and then act upset that I didn't answer, offensive.

Before that we had been talking about going to IHOP tonight and I jokingly told Nikki that we couldn't because "Jonathan" wasn't going to be there. And then Rob pipes in and starts asking questions--who is Jonathan? When am I going to meet this Jonathan? You must really like him? etc.--and I said, I don't know Jonathan, he's a waiter. And he told me that he needs to meet him...why? I really don't know what his problem is, but what he calls "curiosity" I call a very rude way of demanding to know every detail of my personal life. And then he remarked that I don't have a problem telling Chanda, Alex and Nikki all this stuff...to which I replied, actually I don't tell them most of it, they're there when it happens. Not to mention they're my girlfriends and that's a bit different. Also, there are plenty of things that I don't tell them, too...but regardless of whether or not I told them, I didn't tell him and there's generally a reason for that.

So for any rude guy out there that thinks he's entitled to question girls, if the information is not volunteered don't ask. Or if you do ask and you're told it's personal or "not your business" than recognize that it's personal or "not your business." It's very likely that if the person in question wanted you to know, you'd know.